My having been one of the rare grooms-to-be to post on The Knot’s DC message board has brought some traffic to this website.

While posting on The Knot isn’t the most masculine thing I’ve done (that would be when I did a tough-guy shot: snorting salt from the back of my hand, downing a tequila shot, and squirting lemon juice into my eye), I’m not embarrassed about it. I was hoping Margaret would see my posts there and think I was actually helping us plan our wedding.

Anyway, if you’re visiting this site for the first time, here are some of the most popular posts for you to check out:

• Songs we don’t want to hear at our wedding reception: Meet a do-not-play list
• What the groom will be sporting
• It’s my special day—everyone says so